Are you a good friend?

Are you a good friend? Really a good friend?

Did you call your friend at least 2 times a month?

Did you go somewhere together in the last 2 months?

Did you talk to your boyfriend more than you talk to your friend?

Are you there for your friend when your friend needs you?

When your friend asks you to do something, did you do it?

If you answered NOs to the above questions, you should rethink your relationship.

When your friend asks you to go somewhere, did you go?

Or did you used some excuses along this line: I had to work, I need to help my parents, I have class that day, or the company policies require people not to skip Saturday work.

If you switch between the above excuses, maybe you shouldnt be friends. I am sure your friend is considering you not worth having as a friend.

I understand EVERYTHING is important, but you have to think of your friend as important too. You have to make the EFFORT to keep the relationship going. Just dont use excuses.

Yes, your family is important, but you are with your family every day- ever since you are born, but can you spare a day for your friend once every two month?

Yes, you will always have work every day, maybe even Saturday, but can you skip work a Saturday to be with your friend?

Yes, you have boyfriend/girlfriend, would this be your husband/wife or just another guy/girl that is passing through your life. But YOUR FRIEND is not passing through you life. Your friend wants to be in your life. It is you to let your friend in your life.

Did you ever think your friend is tired of you with all your excuses? Do you ever think that your friend is lonely?

Please rethink your life and your friend relationship. You need to make some EFFORT.

edit @ 2005/11/02 00:17:11